I’m in my late 50s and stuck in a rut. I work three days a week for a local authority, where I've been for 20 years, but redundancies have unsettled me. My husband is 13 years older than me, retired and dreams of travelling in our camper van, but I’m not sure this is for me. I’d love to do something else for work that gives me pleasure – I enjoy arts and crafts, painting, tennis, travelling and cooking. I want to change but can’t find the drive. Can you help? Jo, 58

Dear Jo,

First things first: it’s okay to feel this way. What you’re describing is a kind of midlife crossroads – a space between chapters – and while it can feel frustrating, it’s also full of possibility. You’re not ready to retire, and that’s a good thing. You still have curiosity, energy and passion to offer. But it sounds like your path no longer fits who you are now. That’s not failure – that’s growth.

'You’re ready to start designing your next chapter'

After 20 years of dedicated service, wanting more meaning and creativity is natural. And the fact you’re asking these questions means you’re ready to start designing your next chapter.

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This transition doesn’t have to be dramatic. It might mean scaling back what drains you and leaning into what excites you. Could you experiment with a creative side hustle, volunteer with a local gallery or arts organisation (find ideas at reachvolunteering.org.uk) or use that camper van for a short sabbatical?

Even a six-week break can offer space to reimagine what’s next. The goal isn’t, ‘What job should I do?’; it’s ‘What kind of life do I want now?’ You’re in the perfect place to start designing work that fuels you, instead of just funding you.

Tips to reignite your energy for a change in midlife

  • Redefine success - It’s not about climbing ladders any more; it’s about feeling aligned to your values. What lights you up now?
  • Take inventory - What skills do you want to keep, start or stop using?
  • Choose again - Blend your skills with your passions. If this became your work, what would you do?
  • Get specific - List five to 10 must-haves for your ideal working life – non-negotiables.
  • Test the waters - Start small. Try a workshop, a short course or a mini side project.
  • Don’t go it alone - A coach, peer group or podcast (such as my own, The Career Equation) can help you stay on track.

Considering a life pivot but unsure where to begin? Email Erica at worthsharing@goodhousekeeping. Find Erica on Instagram and YouTube @thecareerequation