10 Best Dating Apps for Bisexuals and Pansexuals
And yep, there are plenty of free options.
If you're looking for somebody to love, chances are you're doing some swiping on a screen. But especially if you're a lady seeking a lady, a guy seeking a guy or a bisexual or pansexual person seeking whoever makes you twitterpated, it can be harder to find dating apps that serve up the kind of folks you're looking for.
Even though bisexuals outnumber both lesbians and gay men in the LGBTQ+ family, the population is frequently discriminated against, according to a study published in the University of Richmond Law Review. Some people refuse to acknowledge that bisexuality is a valid orientation, look down on bisexuals who can "pass" as straight or claim that they're not "gay enough" to participate in queer culture. For those reasons, bisexuals are less than half as likely as gay or lesbian people to have come out to most or all of the people in their lives. That's why finding a bisexual-friendly dating app where your authentic self is both welcome and celebrated is so vital.
We've rounded up a list of dating apps for bisexuals and pansexuals that start from a place of respect and inclusivity. Apps like OkCupid have lots of identity marker options, so you can curate your searches. Others like Tinder and Grindr have large user bases, increasing the chances you'll find your someone. Finally, apps like Feeld and #Open cater to those looking for ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Gentle reminder: Not all bi/pan people are into ENM, but those who are deserve a safe and respectful place to find who they're looking for, too.
OkCupid
An oldie but goodie, OkCupid has added lots of LGBTQ+-friendly gender identity and sexual orientation options over the years, making it more inclusive than some others. Because dating profiles on OkCupid are fairly extensive, you can get detailed about what you and potential dates have in common.
Tinder
Because it has a huge volume of users, the OG of dating apps may force you to do lots of swiping to find your match. But playing the numbers game can also improve your chances, so it's a double-sided coin.
Hinge
We all know that a date who comes with a personal reference has an extra level of credibility — and they're less likely to be a bot. That's where Hinge comes in. It matches users with friends-of-friends, so you can check their vibes before agreeing to meet IRL. It calls itself "the dating app designed to be deleted," so if you're seeking a relationship, this app might fit the bill.
Bounce
Deadline-driven folks and those with decision FOMO, we've found the app for you. Bounce users "check in" when they want a date, and get matched with other local singles right away. Matches have one minute to decide whether they want to go for it, and the app chooses a local meeting point so no one has to do the legwork. If you're sick of the endless ping-pong of online messaging, maybe it's time to bounce.
Bumble
Bisexual or pansexual women who like to make the first move may find their fit on Bumble. Women have to message first to initiate a match, so you'll be less likely to accidentally greenlight creepy dudes. Both hetero and queer users are on the platform too.
Lex
Because of its clear zero-tolerance policy for discrimination or hate speech of any kind, Lex is a good app to find like-minded queer people. It's also text-based, for those who want to pick a potential partner on more than a pretty face or (let's be real) the ability to apply a filter.
Grindr
While it's most popular with cis men seeking other cis men, Grindr calls itself the world's largest social networking app for gay, bi, trans and queer people. Every shade of the rainbow can find a match on this very popular LGBTQ+ app.
The League
The League is an application-based app that requires users to enter their job title, their alma mater and LinkedIn profile in order to be accepted. It can take some time to get approved in larger cities and yeah, it's a bit elitist, but it might be worth it to find your perfect person.
#Open
Not all bisexuals are looking for multiple partners, but some are – and that's beautiful. #Open works to create an inclusive, respectful community where members can be themselves, as well as educating society on how to protect and empower our most vulnerable members.
Feeld
One of the largest (and oldest) communities for people seeking multiple partners, Feeld is a good bet if you're looking to cast a wide net. It also allows couples to have accounts together, if you're dating as a duo.
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