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13 Creative and Thoughtful Ways to Ask: Will You Be a Godparent?

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There's nothing better than a thoughtful proposal. That's why we have prom-posals and bridesmaid proposals in addition to The Big Proposal. Choosing a godparent is so important, we think it deserves a proposal of its own. Turns out, lots of Etsy and Amazon creators agree. Here are a few creative ways to pop the question!

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Have Your Baby Wear the Question

Have Your Baby Wear the Question
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Sure, your little one can't talk yet, but a bodysuit like this one is a touching way for your babe to get the point across.

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Invoke the Greatest Godfather of All Time

Invoke the Greatest Godfather of All Time
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Every potential godfather will be flattered to be compared to The Godfather. After he says yes, get him this matching etched whiskey glass as a Christmas gift. 

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Add a Little Magic

Add a Little Magic
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Who doesn't want to play the part of a fairytale heroine? She'll say yes faster than you can sing "Bippity-Boppity-Boo!"

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Raise a Toast

Raise a Toast
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Because you shouldn't have to wait for the First Holy Communion to open a celebratory bottle of wine. You can personalize these labels to say "Will you be my?" instead of "I'm glad you are my," too.

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Frame It

Frame It
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They say a picture is worth 1,000 words, but this picture frame only needs five to ask the pressing question. After the big day, you can replace the photo with a shot from the baptism. 

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Give a Lasting Gift

Give a Lasting Gift
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Your chosen godmother will be able to wear this necklace at every important event in your chid's life to remind them of their bond. This interlocking-circle design is available in silver, yellow gold, and rose gold. 

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Or Go for the Wrist

Or Go for the Wrist
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If there's an Alex and Ani fan in your life, she'll be thrilled to get the "godmother" charm bangle bracelet. This one is also available in silver and yellow gold. 

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Don't Forget the Men

Don't Forget the Men
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Godfathers deserve some bling, too. This keychain can be an everyday reminder how special a certain guy is to your family. 

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Be Brutally Honest

Be Brutally Honest
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There's nothing wrong in admitting you need a little — okay, a lot of — help. If you're really in the weeds, there's a version of this card that uses language we're sure the priests disapprove of. But that's why you picked good godparents — they'll get you back in line. 

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Offer a Promotion

Offer a Promotion
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It may seem businesslike to offer a promotion over coffee, but once she sees how cute this mug is, she'll be pleased. The floral design works for Disney and non-Disney fans alike. 

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Put It On the Tree

Put It On the Tree
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If you're thinking ahead to next Christmas, sneak this ornament onto their tree and see how long it takes them to notice it — it'll seem like a message directly from Santa. 

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Spell It Out for Them

Spell It Out for Them
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Scrabble tiles look like baby blocks, which make for a cute, 3-D element for your proposal. If they're board-game fans, it's a cute way to make your question a little more personal, too.

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Or Go All Out

Or Go All Out
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If you want to combine a bunch of these ideas into one pretty box, this package includes a notecard for you to write in, a personalized mug, a bracelet with the baby's birthstone, a godmother poem, and a tank top for the godmother-to-be. After all that, how can she say no?

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Marisa (she/her) has covered all things parenting, from the postpartum period through the empty nest, for Good Housekeeping since 2018; previously, she wrote about parents and families at Parents and Working Mother. She lives with her toy-collecting husband and daughter in Brooklyn, where she can be found helping out her team at bar trivia or posting about movies on Twitter and Bluesky. 

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