35 Unique Gifts for Women in Their 40s, Even if They Already Have Everything
These thoughtful and creative picks are guaranteed to impress her.
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Hunting down the perfect gifts for women in their 40s can be quite a feat. Now that they've passed their trendy 20s and #adulting 30s, they're probably firmly centered on their family, career and friendships. Chances are they've even acquired necessities for their home, settled on a signature style and have their list of go-to stores.
So if you're shopping for her birthday, a special anniversary, Christmas or just because you love her, you'll need unique gift ideas to make an impression. To help you out, our experts have selected gifts for her that range from practical ideas she'll want to use (a supportive pillow or smart mug to keep her coffee warm all morning, for instance) to personalized items that show just how much you really care. We've even sprinkled in some Good Housekeeping Institute-approved products, including a best-selling Amazon sheet set, that our team of scientific experts believe live up to their claims. And since she's likely so busy prioritizing her kids, partner or boss over her personal needs, many of these gifts also encourage self-care.
What's more, we've ensured all of our picks are under $150 (you'll even find a variety of Amazon gifts under $50!), since staying on budget is key. So, no matter where she is in life, there's a gift here that will make her feel happy and satisfied.
You know she's phenomenal, so why not show her with this cool planner? Each month has an inspirational design with enough room to keep track of her budget, plus jot down notes and important reminders. It also features major holidays and tabs to help her stay extra-organized throughout the year.
Small Travel Jewelry Case
Made of stunning vegan leather, these small travel jewelry cases will keep all her favorite pieces safe on the go. At 4 1/2 inches wide, they're compact enough to take anywhere and can be customized with her initials for an extra special touch.
Original Loft Pillow
Named our "Best Overall" pillow after a series of rigorous Good Institute lab tests, this is the ultimate in comfort and support. Its hybrid fill is easy to adjust for stomach and side sleepers, and our experts love its excellent shape retention, even after a long night's rest.
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Her 40s can come with some new stressors, so this shiatsu massager is just the ticket to soothe her sore neck and shoulders. Over 3,000 Amazon reviewers are raving about its eight different massage pressures, and there are also three speeds to choose from.
Her makeup routine is in for a major upgrade with this lighted mirror. With over 12,000 ratings on Amazon, it boasts 21 LED bulbs, three panels and magnifies up to 10X so she'll never miss a spot.
While the price tag might seem a bit high for leggings, we promise this pair are well worth it. Our lab loves the buttery smooth fabric and their versatility since they are perfect for lounging or working out. They're available in a bunch of different colors and patterns, plus they come in a few different inseams.
If she's always complaining about poor circulation, these rechargeable hand warmers are the gift for her. They'll stay charged for up to four hours, and will heat up in less than two minutes to warm her hands. It doesn't hurt that they're also available in several different fun patterns and colors.
Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug 2
If she loves nothing more than starting her day with a good cup of coffee, this is the perfect gift for her. Once she downloads the Ember app, she can enjoy her coffee at just the right drinking temperature.
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Help her ring in her 40th with this fun t-shirt, which is perfect for a birthday party. Its polyester, cotton and spandex blend make it super comfy and breathable. "It has a nice amount of stretch," one Amazon reviewer wrote.
Help her stay on track with this daily mindfulness calendar. Every morning she can flip the page to a quote that'll encourage her to practice self-care, 365 days a year.
Kick the classic pearls routine up a notch with this beautiful sweetheart necklace. It comes in vermeil, sterling silver, 14K gold and 14K gold finishes, with cute heart beads that give it a funky touch, and modernize the look. White it's a little pricey, it'd make a great gift for anniversaries, birthdays or Valentine's Day.
This crossbody bag by Madewell is on the pricey side, but the quality and durability of the leather is well worth it. She can carry it everywhere, from errands to nights out. One of our editors personally owns the Madewell tote, and it has held up very well over the past few years.
We know, we know. They are super trendy right now, but this pair actually has thousands of reviews on Amazon for being so comfortable and offering a lot of support. And you can take your pick of 16 colors!
Revlon One-Step Volumizer Hair Dryer
It's one of our best-tested hair dyer brushes, and will seriously make her morning routine so much easier. Out of all the models we looked at, it dried hair the fastest and offered a unique shape that smooths and shines hair.
I Wrote a Book About You
Let her know how much you love her by completing the playful prompts in this book around your favorite moments and memories together.
She's super busy, so she might not have time for a high-maintenance plant. Enter the ZZ plant. This hardy plant doesn't need to be watered often (just every two to three weeks), and just has to be placed in indirect sunlight to flourish.
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Since a good night's rest is key, gift this best-selling Amazon sheet set that happens to be a favorite of the Good Housekeeping Institute's bedding analysts. With over 340,000 reviews, they're super soft and come in tons of colors to match her bedroom decor. There are also a variety of sizes to choose from, including options for an extra deep mattress.
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Ice Roller for Face & Eyes
Besides for feeling oh-so-good, an ice roller can help calm skin, reduce puffiness and help with aches. "An easy-to-use and inexpensive item to get for a little at home spa like treatment. It rolls on easy [to use on your] face or sore muscles. The fresh from the freezer feel is extra nice for a refreshing pick me up," said one Amazon user.
This robe had a perfect softness score during our tests, and we love the length, too, because it offers enough coverage without dragging on the ground. Plus, it's extremely absorbent.
This popular Amazon pick is a two-piece set that’s half the price of similar styles. It offers a butter-y feel, and comes in so many different colors, so you can easily find her favorite.
Cailey Lindberg (she/her) is a writer and editor with over a decade of experience covering products, lifestyle, entertainment and food. Before joining Good Housekeeping in 2022, she was a staff writer at USA Today's shopping network, Reviewed.com.
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