16 Best Long-Distance Sex Toys Ever, According to Real Couples

Made in a familiar shape that's time-honored, this rabbit vibrator brings all the features you already love into the future with Lovense's mobile application. Designed to pair with the Lovense Max 2 masturbator (featured below), the Nora will respond in real time to thrusts and other motions so that each toy simulates live sex, despite being apart.

The audio integration for Lovense toys, including the Nora, make it easy for partners to control the toy audibly, too — one tester indicated her partner was able to control the rhythm of the toy via a Facetime call. Our consumer reviewers also indicated its exterior was extremely easy to clean and maintain, and interacted well both with water-based and gel-based lubricants.

Verified Review: "I bought this because of a long-distance relationship and I am very satisfied with my purchase! I often have difficulty climaxing but not with this toy," one reviewer shares. "The app is very cool too; if your partner is controlling the functionality, you can't see what levels of vibration or rotation they are choosing, as your screen is completely blank! The surprise gives them all of the control which is nice because that's how real sex could be if you wanted it to."

We-Vibe's compact sculpted vibrator features an ergonomic design with an applicator that adjusts to your own body as you explore its use. Reviewers indicated that it is on the quiet side (a bonus for indiscreet use!), and the vibrating motors in the gadget's tip make for fun use, even when alone.

But the interactivity of this toy is impressive thanks to We-Vibe's mobile application, which means a partner can cycle through over eight different rhythms and speeds from afar.

Verified Review: "The vibe has a good range of intensities from a very low and rumbling to a strong high buzz. It's great that they've separated out the intensity from the patterns so you don't have to scroll through patterns to get to the intensity you want," one reviewer shares. "The vibe material is soft and flexible, and being completely waterproof makes it easy to clean up."

This handy toy is designed to be used both in the bedroom or on the go. Slip it inside and your partner can pleasure your G-spot or prostate via vibrations from a connected smartphone app. There are nine different vibration modes to choose from so you’re bound to find one that you love. The best part? It has a warming feature so you don’t have to worry about a cold device touching intimate areas.

Verified review: "Wooooooow is an understatement for this toy. It was so worth the money. It is very, very easy to use and sooo much fun."

Whether you’re in the mood for internal penetration or external stimulation, this waterproof multitasking toy can do both. It has a vibrating dildo at one end and a rose at the other that simulates tongue-licking. What’s more, it’s totally customizable with nine different settings for vibrating and licking. Plus, it can be controlled by buttons on the device or an app-connected smartphone so your partner can pleasure you even from afar.

Verified review: "My husband and I enjoyed using this together. It has a low-level noise which I love. The power of both ends is incredible! The texture is so soft. No more batteries — it charges through a USB which it comes with! That’s an A+ right there! Makes our sexy times very enjoyable!"

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is less a penetrative sex simulator and more of a holistic vibrator with mind-blowing constriction that's temperature-controlled, too. Testers indicated that this gadget felt like a highly customized hand job which set it apart from other sleeves on this list. Alongside the Nora or another Max 2, Lovense gives you the capability of syncing up each toys to each other's rhythms and movements, so it truly feels like lovers are experiencing the same eroticism in step with one another.

Verified Review: "On my first outing, I was just cycling through the vibrations, and then I hit the pulse button activating the air bladder," one reviewer shares. "In four short squeezes, the Max 2 got my rocks off."

If you fancy yourself a contortionist, the Nova 2 is the toy for you. Testers indicated that it provides vibrating stimulation to almost all the pleasure zones of the vagina all at once, given its dual motor action in both shafts. And because its posterior is entirely flexible and adjustable by force, this option is great for those who feel that more rigid vibrators don't always pair well with the shape and depth of their vagina. Alongside other We-Vibe toys on this list, this Nova 2 toy is fully remotely accessible via the We-Vibe app.

Verified Review: "I find a lot of rabbits to be quite 'stock standard' with a similar design and not a lot of flexibility, they either work for you, or they don't," one reviewer shares. "This rabbit is a bit different and I found it is a much better option for people that find standard rabbits aren't quite right for them."

For those with partners that have a penis, Kiiroo's Titan stroker makes for a great gift that you can control remotely yourself during times when you can't be there in person. It's more discreet than other vibrators or strokers featured in this guide; with up to nine vibrators activated at once, testers indicated that the motor was on the quieter side. And just like other Kiiroo products on this list, this device can also be linked to others via the brand's FeelConnect app. It can also be used with interactive pornographic material.

Verified Review: "Even though the design is really simple, it provides VERY intense orgasms that are also hands-free, leaving my hands free for added stimulation," one reviewer shared. "The design is basically a rubber sleeve that has vibration motors along and around the whole shaft, so it really vibrates EVERYTHING and not just one spot."

Equipped with a special gripped design that targets both your G-spot and clitoris, Lovense's Dolce vibrator comes equipped with two motors for both areas. Testers loved that the toy's adjustable base allowed them to use this toy hands-free, enabling the Dolce to sit firmly against the skin and fit snugly internally. Its petite size makes it a perfect option for play while away from home, alongside its discreet design profile.

Verified Review: "It has preset patterns for when my friend is busy, but he can control it when he's not. He is really good at making up patterns," one reviewer shares. "I like that it bends so I can adjust it just right. I can sit and walk with it on, too."

If you are missing penetration with your partner (whether that's vaginal, anal or oral) this high-tech stroking machine is just about the closest experience you'll get to the real thing. You'll need to purchase a sleeve of your choice to accompany Kiiroo's Keon machine, which is built with an ergonomic grip that allows users to seamlessly experience up to 230 strokes a minute. Testers indicated that the FeelConnect app allowed their partners to virtually customize everything about their experience, making this one of the best masturbation experiences for those with penises. It pairs perfectly with any of the other Kiiroo products featured on this guide for in-sync rhythms to facilitate virtual sex from miles away, including other male masturbators that function in step for gay couples.

Verified Review: "My girlfriend got this for me because she was going on a ladies' trip and didn't want me to 'go without'. Perfect solution! Can't wait to test another couple sleeves!"

The magic of magnetic attachments is clear with this fun offering from We-Vibe, which allows you to discreetly slip this clitoral vibrator into the underwear of your choice. With a strong motor, the Moxie can be remotely controlled via the We-Vibe app — but it also comes packaged with a remote control for proximity use as well. Public reviewers indicated that they appreciated the Moxie was waterproof for use in the outdoors while in a bathing suit, for example.

Verified Review: "If you're looking for a long-distance toy, this is the one. Me and my boyfriend are 2,500 miles apart and he can control it on the app," a shopper shares. "I use it as a regular vibrator, we don't use the magnet, but it does come with a spare one."

A gift that will make anyone with a vulva very happy, this standalone G-spot vibrator is highly interactive despite its streamlined design. Testers found it connected well with the Kiiroo Titan in that both devices delivered the same vibration patterns for a synchronized intimate experience. It seamlessly connects with video programming as well as 3D games available via the FeelConnect app.

Verified Review: "I have the hardest time getting off but me and my partner use this and it's the best toy hands down I have ever used— strongest vibrations in any toy ever!"

This rounded vibrator head packs quite a punch. It can make for a thrilling experience when a partner is controlling its vibration speed and strength from a distance. Public reviews indicate that this toy requires a hand (or two!) to be most effective, but is equipped with technology that allows for remote play using Lovense's app. You don't even need another partner, per se, for this specific toy — Lovense's app has recently integrated an AI function from ChatGPT that allows you to ask a robot to create unique, exciting masturbatory patterns for you.

Verified Review: "It is indeed the strongest wand I have ever used," one shopper shares. "I love the lights and love that it works with the Lovense app and has the custom-led selection to choose from."

KIIROO's Pulse Solo Interactive can help anyone with a penis feel as if they are being touched intimately by a partner, even if they aren't in the room. Its sturdy silicone exterior is soft to the touch, meaning users can slip into the device without much preparation and begin experiencing top-notch vibrations with the click of a button. Testers reported that the FeelConnect app seamlessly connected to interactive porn which makes this vibrating masturbator feel even keel with other more enveloping options on this list. Plus, it's water-resistant and can be used in the shower for wet play.

Verified Review: "The vibrations are strong and when synced up using FeelAI, it's amazing! The battery life is great and have never had it run out on me. "

A vibrating penis ring that can be controlled remotely in the same manner that a panty vibrator can? That's the basis of We-Vibe's Verge, which can be worn during physical vaginal sex to add extra stimulation to penetration for those with a vagina. Testers indicated that this tight fit (which may be too tight if you're already aroused!) ensures you'll feel every buzz and vibration along the ridge of the scrotum.

Verified Review: "My husband loves this toy. He was skeptical at first but as soon as he tried it, he loved it!," one shopper shared. "And for me, it feels like it turns his penis into a vibrator. No regrets with this purchase!"

If you're missing out on oral sex, this suction-based toy mimics the best of this by manipulating the air around your clitoris. The brand's mobile app (the Satisfyer Connect app) allows a partner to control two different motor settings with over 6 vibration schedules from a great distance. There are 11 intensity settings to choose from, so you can build the excitement as you go!

Verified Review: "I was shocked at how quickly I finished and the amount of times I did. It's very quiet for all the work it does and on top of that the app is pretty dope to use."

A more compact version of the We-Vibe's Verge ring, it's an easier fit that sits snugly between a penis and a vagina during intercourse. It features the same remote control capabilities through the brand's mobile application, with 11 vibration settings that can be turned off and on remotely. The smooth silicone base stretches a bit for those with girth and provides stimulating vibration even when used alone.

Verified Review: "This was our first app-controlled toy and we were very surprised at how well it worked. The app gets great updates and it allows my partner to control it via her phone wherever she is," one reviewer shares. "The actual toy itself worked really well and certainly added to our experience and enjoyment together. Once on, it is very comfortable and is also very easy to clean."