14 Best Sex Toys for Lesbians to Try in 2024

With many colors to choose from — like cashew, caramel, hazelnut and chocolate — this brand gives you the opportunity to select a dildo that matches the skin tone of your choice.

It also “has a pliable silicone core, which allows it to bend during penetration so it’s more likely to hit the different hotspots in the vaginal canal,” says Kassel. The flexible nature of this dildo means you can simply wear it, too, according to Wet For Her, making it a very versatile toy for trans, gender-fluid and non-binary folks as well.

When you’re just starting out with sex toy shopping, you don’t necessarily want to break the bank trying something you may or may not like, says Gabrielle Kassel, a sex educator and journalist. So, this $30 option is a great place to start if you’re wondering if G-spot stimulation is for you. The Yummy Sunshine Vibrator comes in a bright yellow that invites play and curiosity, and it’s made of skin-friendly waterproof silicone.

“It’s also a good option for folks who generally don’t like high intensity vibrators,” adds Kassel. “It starts at a level that is often described as ‘buzzy,’ which means it’s a less intense vibration and moves up to a moderate intensity. You can also use this one externally so the versatility is what makes it great for beginners and those on a budget.”

This harness is made out of machine-washable, breathable materials (nylon and spandex), which means it’s super practical and soft to the touch. It has two adjustable straps, making it easy for you to fit it to your body shape and size. Plus: it can slip on and off very easily, just like a pair of underwear.

The Joque harness accommodates dildos ranging from 1.10 to 2.25 inches in diameter. And “what's nice about this harness is that there’s two little pockets for bullet vibrators,” says Kassel. “So that means the person who's receiving the dildo can be teased and stimulated while the person who is wearing the harness can be stimulated and teased too.” It can even accommodate double dildos if you and your partner would like to experience penetration simultaneously.

Watch out! You might end up ditching your traditional vibrators for this one, which has thousands of 5-star reviews. Made of super smooth, body safe silicone, it is waterproof and USB-rechargeable. It may be small, but with the five speed settings it has available, the sensations can get pretty intense, says Gomes.

“I’ve used many clit stimulating toys, but Puff is the all around winner for me,” adds Gomes. “Its shape makes it really easy to hold and maneuver. And it’s hands down the most affordable bang for your buck clit stimulator out there. I sometimes still can’t believe it’s so affordable because the orgasms it delivers can be wild!”

The magic behind this medical-grade silicone wand is its incredible adaptability. The bulbed head is large enough that it can stimulate both the clitoris and the vulva, and the flexible neck allows you to bend the bulb to the angle of your liking and ergonomic needs. “The thing I like most about it is that the actual wand part curves with your body so much better than just a straight wand,” says McDaniel.

You can choose from a variety of vibrational patterns and intensities too. If you like it more on the intense side, Dame Toys claims the Com has “their most powerful motor yet.” Users say it brings an intense-enough gratification without the loud, vibe-killing buzz.

The Moxie+ is a wearable vibrator that can fit right in your underwear. You can control it with the remote control or on the app, giving you the opportunity to explore some solo, hands-free pleasure whenever and wherever.

For partners, the Moxie+ two vibrator set is well-suited for long-distance lovemaking. And it’s “a great option for discreet public play and teasing, says Frye-Nekrasova. “Both partners can play with each other at the same time with the app or the remote control. This is a great toy for building anticipation because you can use it without ever actually touching each other and can focus on building up the excitement for when you do touch.”

Save these for the next time you and/or your partner are in the mood for a little more kink. Vampire gloves may look a little scary, but the soft buttery leather can feel nice on the skin, says McDaniel, while the pokey stubs can add an interesting contrast if you’re into that kind of external sensory play. “As long as you’re using [these gloves] gently and not poking really hard, they are not going to pierce the skin,” says McDaniel.

By the way, this variety comes in four different sizes (small, medium, large and XL) allowing people of varying hand sizes to use them.

Stainless steel sex toys are great for those who like a firmer dildo with a little more weight to them. You can use them for a vaginal massage or to ready intimate areas for larger toys, according to Kassel. Plus they are incredibly easy to clean with soap and water, in the dishwater, or in a boiling pot of water. Perhaps what makes them the most interesting is the ability to play around with temperature. “You can stick the stainless steel toy in the freezer ahead of play and use it to help you or your partner experience different sensations,” says Kassel.

We-Vibe is one of the most reputable brands on the market, having been in the business for over a decade. Their Touch X is made of soft and plush silicone that is waterproof and easy to clean. Thanks to its intuitive design, you can easily click through eight of its different vibration intensities and seven of its vibrational patterns (the cha-cha is a fan favorite). Users say it's a quiet and powerful tool that’s so discreet it can fit snugly into your hand.

If you’re curious about butt play but are afraid of purchasing something too large, you may appreciate this product from B-Vibe. This vibrating butt plug is about the size of a finger, making it more suitable for those new to anal play. With the accompanying remote, you can change between the six different intensity levels from up to 30-feet away. “So if you are out with a partner, that can be a fun thing to have” for discreet public play, says McDaniel. The novice can be used in the vagina as a hands-free vibrator. But if you’ve used it anally, wash it thoroughly with antibacterial soap first.

For double the penetrative fun, the Fun Factory Share could be a very exciting choice for you and your partner. This velvety silicone dildo is designed to curve against the wearer’s G-spot and stay there as they pleasure their partner's inner sweet spots. This makes it a “strapless” dildo, which can feel amazing. The thing is: “It can take a lot of pelvic floor strength and coordination to keep the dildo in on the wearer’s side,” says Kassel. In that case, you may want to use the aid of a strap on — which you would have to purchase separately — in certain positions. For some gender-nonconforming folks, this dildo can be very gender-affirming — with or without a partner.

Like stainless steel varieties, glass dildos are really easy to clean and lend well to temperature play. For example, glass dildos hold on to heat very well, according to Kassel. You can dip a glass dildo in a bowl of warm water for a few minutes and use it for foreplay.

“Those who may experience pain during penetration or have a hard time getting in the mood for sex, a warm glass dildo can help increase blood flow and start the arousal process,” says Kassel.

As a result, “they are more likely to become lubricated and experience pleasure.” This glass dildo has a minimalist design with thick nubs and spiraled ridges to massage all of your internal curves. Most users say it’s study, affordable and totally worth a try.

This comes in real handy when you want to stimulate both your clitoris and your inner hotspots. The external arm has seven intensity settings (five patterns) and its flexibility allows you to find the best angle for your body. Meanwhile, the internal arm has five separate thrust intensities (and five patterns). The best part: You can control each of these features independently giving you 120 different combinations of pleasure.

“I can’t get enough of this toy because of its ergonomic handle and beautiful thrusting power,” says Gomes. “Because the toy is designed so well, I am able to really immerse myself in the experience.”

RodeoH makes all sorts of underwear-style harnesses for various gender expressions. So whether you want boxer, brief or panty harnesses, RodeoH’s got you covered — literally. “What's nice about these options is that they cover more skin than a strap style harness would,” says Kassel. “So for a person who does not want their genitals or butt visible to their partner, they are a really awesome option.”

These boxers are affordable, comfortable and machine-washable with a 1.65" O-ring which fits many dildo sizes. They can also be worn underpants like regular underwear. So if you are going to something like a play party, or you are traveling to see your partner, you’ll be ready to go when things get hot.