15 Best Sex Toys, According to Sex Therapists and Online Reviews

Deliver pleasure exactly where you want it with this finger vibrator. It's got 10 vibration modes and even a heating function so you never have to have a cold device touching your intimate areas. What's more, you can use it vaginally, anally or to stimulate other areas like breasts. And at just 4 inches, it's small enough to take when you travel.

A reviewer says: "My husband surprised me with this, and it's a wonderful additional to our arsenal of bedroom goodies. It definitely hits the G-spot as described and turns foreplay into its own incredible experience. It's great to use alone as well."

This two-in-one toy has a dildo at one end and a rose at the other that simulates tongue-licking. There are nine different settings for vibrating, thrusting and licking so you're sure to find the right vibration to get your buzz on. For some extra excitement, you can even have your partner control the toy using the smartphone app.

A reviewer says: "It's very versatile, a perfect weight, not too big and strong enough to be intense. Love it! We keep finding new ways to use it."

Glass sex toys are perfect if you're trying to avoid chemical smells or rough textures. Glass also holds temperatures well if you want to play with a little heat or ice. The design of this one incorporates bumps for extra anal or vaginal stimulation.

A reviewer says: "I love this beautiful piece of art! My husband used this on me and it was amazing! This was my first experience with a glass dildo and I've totally been missing out."

This mainstay of the sex toy world is still just as popular and effective as when it first launched back in the '60s — and now it's cordless. The toy is known for how well it stimulates the clitoris. Plus, it comes with a one-year warranty.

A reviewer says: "Some people may not like it because it’s large and clunky, but it will get you there. While it’s still audible on the two highest settings, it’s tons quieter than the original Magic Wand. Plus, if the battery dies you can always plug it in — a lot of products like that you can’t use while plugged in."

For most women, the clitoris is the gateway to orgasm — and this toy is made specifically for that pleasure part. It comes with three different silicone heads and has seven vibration modes and six intensities so you can customize it to produce the exact sensations you like best. Plus, if you want a little G-spot action it can be used internally too.

A reviewer says: "If you are looking for something small and unique this is for you. It's surprisingly strong for the size and is quiet."

When you're in the mood for a vibration-less good time, consider a dildo, which will mimic an erect penis. This one is a reasonable size in length and girth, and it has a suction at the bottom that allows you to switch things up and bounce your way to orgasm. You can also attach it to a harness.

A reviewer says: "I’m new to toys in the bedroom, so this surprised and delighted me. Will definitely be using again and again."

If you're just dipping your toes in the sex-toy pool, this is a very good option. It's easy to use, and versatile with 10 vibration settings, making it great for exploring what feels good to you — try it on your breasts, rest it against your clitoris or slide it inside.

A reviewer says: "Being new to using an item like this, I wanted something user-friendly/simple. The simplicity alone is great, one button, and the touch of the material is so smooth. Easy to clean and store. It will bring that perfect feeling every time, no matter the situation. I orgasmed so quickly, I was in shock."

One way to jack up the fun is to give your partner control, and this app-controlled vibrator is a great option, especially for long-distance partners. You give your partner access to the app, then let them pulse you to climax by stimulating your clitoris and G-spot. "Be sure to set boundaries to help the person who's in the more dominant role know what’s expected of them," says Rachel Zar, LMFT, CST.

A reviewer says: "Amazing design, comfortable fit. Highly-recommend to feel close with a loved one even if they're miles and miles away!"

Introducing hands-free vibration during sex can enhance things for both you and your partner, and this is a good first option for people who haven't experimented with wearable toys before (just note that it may feel snug at first). It also has a low battery indicator, so there are no mid-sex surprises. Just slip it on your partner or a strap-on.

A reviewer says: "Soft, silky, very stretchy and powerful. I could feel the vibrations everywhere. You can do all kinds of things with it."

"No matter your gender, sexuality or relationship status, I recommend masturbation to almost every one of my clients. It's self-love and self-care, and introducing sex toys can seriously up the ante," says Rachel Wright, LMFT, an NYC-based relationship, sex and mental health therapist.

This tool can help, allowing you to stimulate your G-spot and your clitoris at the same time. A rabbit vibrator like this rumbles inside of you while pulsing your clitoris too. With 10 different vibration patterns, the pleasure possibilities are endless.

A reviewer says: "If you are looking to finish, this is definitely a good toy to go with. I usually find it difficult to climax, but this toy got me there within a few short minutes. I've now accessed new pleasure and become more empowered in my body."

The nipples are very sensitive, so showing them some attention can be an exciting way to bring more pleasure to solo or partner sex. This is super lightweight, so you can really focus on the sensations, plus there are five modes to find your ideal intensity. And don't be afraid to explore beyond the breasts — try tickling around the vulva or penis to see what feels good.

A reviewer says: "I love using it for nipple stimulation, getting ticklish feelings all over, and definitely for clitoral and broader vulva stimulation. The thin silicone is so flexible and opens up many options that traditional toys just can't do. The long thin handle makes it very easy to use with a partner in many positions too."

If you like to engage in a little backdoor action, check out this beginner-friendly butt plug designed specifically for people with vulvas. It's slim with an asymmetric base that won’t block the vaginal opening, and the curved tulip shape guides penises or toys toward the G-spot.

A reviewer says: "It's my first anal toy, and it has been wonderful! I have used it with my partner, and it has been one of the most pleasurable experiences I remember. Perfect size."

Vibration isn't the only way to make your clitoris happy. This uses air technology for a suction-like effect, similar to what you may enjoy during oral partner sex. Get frisky with six intensity levels and four speed patterns, and travel in comfort by knowing it has a travel lock function to avoid accidental buzzing.

A reviewer says: "Every girl should have one, and I’ve told all my friends to get one ordered. Great texture and color and it's waterproof!"

For those who enjoy versatility, this vibrator features one non-vibrating side and one vibrating side — both great for vaginal and anal pleasure. It looks luxurious, and you can play with three vibration patterns and three power levels. "Pleasure and orgasm are really good for you because they release hormones that reduce stress and anxiety," says Zar. "Variety is good for both solo sex and relationships as a whole."

A reviewer says: "I’ve never had an orgasm until I bought this vibrator. I love how simple it is, I love that there’s only three speed options, and I love that I can stimulate both outside and inside, in one toy."

The easy-to-grip ergonomic design means all of your attention can go to getting off. Wrap your fingers around it, and send vibrations coursing through you and your partner. "Adding anything that can enhance your communication with your partner is helpful and can also improve intimacy. When we talk about what feels good, how to better please and try new things, we bond," Wright says.

A reviewer says: "This makes you feel good in all the right places, and since it's so easy to hold, you can really get lost in the moment."